Monday, January 10, 2011

Why Do People Become Homeless

There is only one path to homelessness, but there are many reasons why it happens. And the differences in those reasons are very important, they are more important than the cause itself.

The Difference between How and Why

Let me digress for just a moment here. The difference between "how" a person became homeless, and "why" they became homeless is important to consider. Often, people confuse those two words, they use them interchangeably. I think this is perhaps the biggest reason why people become confused about homelessness, about why it exists, and what can or should be done about it. In short, "how" describes only the process of becoming homeless, the steps taken. "Why" is what we consider when determining the reasons something happened, why a person ended up on that path to homelessness.

Though it is important to know how people become homeless, the true cause of homelessness is found by asking why they are homeless. Understanding the difference between how and why people become homeless directly effects the process of helping people overcome homelessness. If people only focus on the "how," and disregard the "why," they will fail every time, at ending homelessness.

Homelessness is caused by a lack of money

Every single person who becomes homeless does so the same way, they all follow the same basic path. They all ended up in a situation where they didn't have enough money to pay for a place to live. Either they lost a job, spent all the money they had, or they left a home where someone else was paying the bills. That's "how" they all become homeless.

Two types of homeless people

In answering the question, "why" they become homeless, why they ended up with a lack of money, at this point we find two distinguishable types of homeless people. There are those people who become homeless only because of financial mismanagement. How they organized their finances was insufficient to deal with necessities required to maintain a home. They made a few incorrect decisions with their money causing them to have inadequate funds to pay for housing. For this group, it is that simple. And for them, the solution to end their homelessness is equally as simple. All they need do is correct their financial situation and in a very short amount of time, they will find themselves back in a home. For these people, the "how" and the "why" of their homelessness is, for the most part, one and the same. Their homeless experience lasts a very short time - from just a day or two, to a few months at the most. Often, these people fix their homeless situation by themselves, or with very little assistance. The majority of people who become homeless fall into this category.

All other homeless people fall into a separate category. These people also experience a financial crisis, but for different reasons. Their decision making processes are impaired by extenuating circumstances, such as mental illness, or addictions. It is important to note that a person does not have to be completely crazy to have a mental health condition that interferes with their decision making process. Depression or anxiety, or other brain function differences, such as Asperger's Syndrome, can impair their abilities and cause them to become homeless. All of the people in this category require treatment specific to their condition before they can successfully leave homelessness. This treatment involves teaching coping skills so that these people can effectively control their condition and prevent it from interfering with their decision making processes. The amount of time it takes for these people to leave homelessness depends on the severity of their condition and the quality of treatment they receive. There are fewer people becoming homeless this way, but because very few services are available to them, their homelessness can last a long time. Many homeless people die while still homeless and awaiting help.

With homelessness, we have one "how" and two "whys."

How people homeless is always due to financial mismanagement. Why people people become homeless is due to either improper decision making only, or improper decision making due to conditions that interfere with a person's decision making process.

It is of the utmost importance that this distinction between types of homeless people be made. Confusing the two types will make solving homelessness more difficult. It is wrong to assume that all homeless people have a mental health condition or addiction problem. Many people will not hire a homeless person or give them financial assistance because of this assumption and may unnecessarily extend a person's homelessness. At the same time, it would be a mistake to give a job, or money, to a homeless person who has a mental health condition or addiction because they may not be able to handle those responsibilities successfully. Not only is it a waste of resources, it could lead to a worsening of their condition. Before things like a job, or money, are given to a person with those extenuating circumstances, it is important to first determine if they have received proper treatment and have developed adequate coping skills. Know also that such assistance to this type of homeless person may have only a limited effect, easing their homelessness, but not curing it outright.

22 comments:

  1. I guess I fall into that first category. I was living in a home when we all got kicked out. I didn't have a job at the time and things have been tough since then.

    When I look back at my life, I tend to peer a little deeper into my cause of homelessness. Though the "how" was me not having a job when we lost our house, the why is a very different story.

    When I was younger, I was never equipped with a proper foundation that would help me create a better future for myself. Since I was rebellious and always in trouble, I never bothered trying to ask the right questions. I always thought my life would get better on it's own.

    It goes even deeper than that but I want to make this short. I became homeless because I was unprepared. I remain homeless because I had a very rough past and most people can not look past that when I go to them in an attempt to get my life back on track.

    Thank you for this post.

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  2. I think the major causes that someone become homeless is lack of money or lost their job

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  3. When the economy is really bad, like it is now. yes. But in my life time it's never been this bad, and so other factors applied.

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  4. Sometime people need a boost up, because without it, you'll never solve your homelessness. Family, a good friend, a mentor, maybe even someone at a church may give you some resources, not always financial, to attempt to improve your situation. Can't get a job without living somewhere, people can't reach you without a phone, you can't get to work without transportation, all valid reasons for blocking your path in improving your life. Exchanging room and board for chores, lawn care, babysitting, cooking, cleaning, there are so many people too busy for these responsibilities that may be looking for someone to help in these areas, and this givves you the boost up. Time consuming, yes, to find these positions. but staying visible at local coffee shops, gas stations, anywhere neighbors gather at some point in the day, may give the 'potential' for this opportunity.

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  5. man this is so sad we who have money and wealth should help out these people even if they arent the same race or colour or even if they are not family we should do something anout it because they are humans as well just like us who are sleeping in comfortable beds, who are eating deliciously warm food who are warm every night have nice clothes and who the money to pay for our childrens medicine or medical bill while a child is probably dieing all over the world probably every minute if your not gonna do anything about your just plain greedy and are heartless :)

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    1. ok, I agree to some extent, however how do you know someone is safe. What if their mental illness (if they have one) or situation causes them to do something to you or your family or children. ? I can give someone money or food but not necessarily feel comfortable (safety wise) bringing them home with me--or putting them in my car. I am thinking of one woman in particular who has asked several different times for money for food at Kroger. I have given her some but another time I said I didn't have any but had food and she would not take it. Ok, was she lieing? Did she want the money for her possible addiction? Also, have you ever read the Glass Castle--pretty hard book to swallow when you read that many want to be homeless and stay in situation they are in b/c of bad decision making. Then they end up living off others that are in a better place. I know each person is different and that most aren't using money for drugs and such. I really do have a heart, I am just trying to figure out sometimes what more I can do and who I can trust--it just depends on the individual homeless person I guess. B/C I do know, To whom much is given, much is required. If I could just help one of those people I see everyday. I just need to know where to start--(esp if I am pretty sure the person has a mental illness) How do you even begin. hmmmm

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    2. I am have recently lost my home due to lack of job and the economy. I moved quickly to an extended stay. Through this ordeal I see how people move in stages from being part of society to homeless. I found out this week that there have been people living in extended stay and hotels for the last 3-5 years due to the economy. Help them out with laundry soap and free books and magazines to keep them motivated. I then had to move stuff into storage and found out the people there are now homeless and only have a storage locker - so if there is anyone paying off christmas layaways to help - why not go to a storage facility and ask if you could pay a months storage for a homeless person? (it is all they have left). Lastly - why can't some of the wealthier individuals buy foreclosed homes and let families live in them for free for a year but have them help rehab other homes and help with child care - this could be their jobs?
      Sad in extended stay....

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  6. Homelessness is on the rise due to the fact that the unfortunate of our society who did not for whatever reason acquire a higher education do not receive an even partially life-sustaining wage and that is wrong!

    Notwithstanding, welfare programs and educational programs for these people have been cut from the budget in the interest of paying for wars and corporation theft.

    I know, I have been and soon again will be among them but a movement is rising in America and the time for us to rise up against the government who would toss us to the curb is upon us.

    It is my intention to rally the homeless, the abused, the poverty stricken single parents, our abandoned veterans, and the forgotten to occupy everywhere NOW. Tent cities located in the heart of all the financial districts of this nation will rise up with the multitudes of the dissatisfied. Please spread the word so that those without a home already might find comfort among us as we raise our voices to a level that will never be forgotten!

    Please check out my blog at

    http://whoarethe99percent.blogspot.com/2011/10/held-hostage.html

    It is just in the beginning stages and I welcome anyone and everyone to comment and contribute.

    We are the 99%!

    Occupy Everywhere!

    A media blackout is trying to prevent everyone from knowing about this movement, please search "occupy wall street" to find out more and by all means, SPREAD THE WORD! We will be our own media!

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  7. In less than a week I will be homeless. I currently have no job, yet I have a degree. I either get "all positions are filled" or "I am over qualified" for minimum wage positions. Even those don't pay enough. I am re-enrolling in college but that is 3 months away, and my college doesn't have student housing. So unless I get a job offer (have had no interviews yet) in the next week I don't know what I will do.

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  8. I too am one week away from being homeless. I am searching for a job so hard. I have made decent money in my life. The last 4 jobs that I have had lasted no more than 12 months. Every company went out of business, cut back on employees or sold the business unit that I worked in. My last job is a prime example. I left a lower paying wage job, $24k a year, not enough to support my family. The new job payed $55k, still less than what I made when I was 10 years younger. Just 4 months into the new job the corporation consolidated in business and gave me 2 months severance. I survived with that in little savings for six months. Now it is all gone. I have no place to go. How do I tell my kids we have no place to live? I could live on my sisters couch, but she is going through a divorce and her life is in turmoil. IDK where to go. A friends couch for a couple weeks. No job or prospects.

    Do I turn to begging to prospective employers and show them what I have dpne in the past? My credit is horrible. For many years I was an 800 credit score and I was saving over $15k per year. After working for so many companies in a short time people will not hire me.

    My step=mom (your not living with us..) says " you are so talented and good at what you do. You will get a job. Your dad was always been successful. I have faith in you. good luck".

    I am tired and broken down from overqualified. Heck, I even had an anonymous text once "we need to hire" me " who is this?" "I need a job and here are my qualifications..." anonymous "sorry your overqualified"" WTF

    Ready to give uo.

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    1. I can totally relate. I have a B.A in accounting, have passed the CPA exam. I have been out of work for three years. I have been on over 50 job interviews. On top of this I had two rotator cuff surgeries in 2010 and very limited use of my right arm. It hurts to type this. I have applied for SSDI and been denied twice. I am waiting for a hearing. My dad keeps telling me "you have a brain and talents, you should be able to get some kind of job". My mom lives in a $4,000/month retirement community. I just got my last unemployment check and I am looking at living in my car by April. Thank God I am getting a tax refund. This will allow me to stay in my apartment one more month. None of my friends have offered housing, even though most of them are single and have three bedroom homes. I just don't understand. I have gone out of my way to help other people all my life and now this is what I get.

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  9. My son, who is mentally ill, has enough money (SSI) to rent a room, and we have been willing to manage his money for him, and add a little to make it all add up, so I'd say he does not fall under your rule.

    In fact I have found him two separate living situations, one supported, one just an SRO room (but it was a nice one), and he got thrown out of both of them for non-financial reasons, to wit, he turned destructive and dangerous.

    It's not money.

    One cannot "receive proper treatment" or learn "appropriate coping skills" unless one wants to do that. He doesn't. He's actually perfectly happy living in the streets, as happy as anyone else.

    I'm at a loss.

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  10. You admit that your son is mentally ill. But you don't think that him being "perfectly happy living in the streets" isn't due to his mental illness? I think you're looking for an excuse to not care. There was a time when caring people would have a family member in this condition committed to an institution. Now they just let them languish on the streets. Sad.

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  11. If your gonna be homeless and your looking for a job don't be picky about the job. Take whatever you can get, and never never give up. You fall down and then you pick yourself up again. I have had multiple surgeries and I feel a lot of pain but I am gonna try and work. I don't know if I will be a failure because of my condition but atleast I can always know that I tried my best to succeed in life. I am about to loose everything I have. My home, and my vehicle could be lost if this job doesn't pan out but whatever happens I will know that this is what plan god had for me for some reason. And if it doesn't work-out than I will move on to figure out something else that might work. I am just saying to evryone out their that you need to try your honest to god best cuz that's all we as people can do.

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  12. That's great Anonymous, if you do ever become homeless you'll know that it was only due to financial issues and nothing else. You seem healthy, mentally, and that is a blessing.

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  13. I was on the streets as a teenage runaway. What is written here is pretty true, except that it doesn't explain the homeless youth situation. Homeless youth face different challenges as they are not able to work and have to constantly hide themselves from the police (if runaways) or from different service providers so that they don't end up in foster care or in jail.

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  14. I agree with the last comment. I was homeless through high school and college. I looked 10 when I was 18, so getting a job was really tough. Then in college i did not make enough to do both tuition and rent. By that time, I had learned enough that I could live (illegally) in the library.

    You also have to hide from the pimps, the druggies, the folks bigger than you are. I survived only because I made myself invaluable to the right people-I could fill out the forms and get someone SSI and stuff like that, so I bought my protection.

    So, a third category perhaps is needed for youth.

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  15. As of Feb 1, I will become homeless, by choice - although I guess one could make the argument that I'm in the first category of "why"... budgeting for decent housing is, at the same time, financially irresponsible.
    For the past year, my leased apartment, at $1100 per month, takes more than half my net pay, not including necessary utilities (another $160/m) . Every less expensive placeI have found is bug-infested or in high-crime areas, and requires a 12-m lease. My employment situation is highly unstable and even if I found a decent affordable place, I cannot in good conscience commit to another lease. I'm slowly getting into more and more debt each month, having to put necessities like medical copays, medications ($235/m), car repairs on credit cards. Still, I'm one of the lucky ones - I have a car (paid for, $200/m in gas, $75 in insurance), a job, and even though I can't afford the $3000/yr deductible and $50 copays for routine care, I have health insurance ($300/m premiums).
    Yes, many people live successfully on the amount of money I earn, but everyone I know has at least two incomes in their household; I do not. I am a 60-year old grandmother who just can't afford decent housing on my salary. I'd rather be in my car than in the apartments I can afford.
    Thanks so much to all who share survival tips, and to those of you brave enough to share your circumstances... makes me feel a tiny bit less like a pariah.

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    1. How about sharing an apartment or renting a room in a house. I don't know where you live, but this would be a safer alternative probably than living in your car.

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  16. Sometimes you have to voice your need to your friends and family before they are moved enough to do anything about it. Don't just expect that others in your life will know how to respond to your particular circumstances. You have to ask for help when you need it. You can't assume people will offer help when you tell them you're having a rough time of it.

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  17. I have an X-Husband that is homeless, and I'd like to help him help himself. I know his family has tried in the past, but years of abuse of drugs and alcohol has made his mind, not so quick and sometimes paranoid. He states he is "sober", but I do not know for sure, he does get a check SSI, but it is not much maybe 900. mo. I am trying to figure out how I can help him out.

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  18. Being that you are an "X" probably makes you the least likely candidate for helping him. There would be too much emotion between the two of you, to be able to do what's right for him.

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